I need help

[LuisGarcia10]

it's not a relationship really is it?
I'm sorry but this is just absolutely ridiculous. You've met her once, unless I'm mis-reading it?
I don't care how many millions of skype messages you've sent her, it is not a substitute for talking in real life to someone.

 

[ebracer05]

yes. you're right luisgarcia10. i had a classic case of Ted Mosby syndrome from the show How I Met Your Mother when he first met Robin. Like I said, I feel infinitely more clear headed than I did last night and can see the numerous mistakes I was making. I've been thinking to myself this morning that I made all of the mistakes I would have warned anyone else against making. It's a little bit funny. More pathetic I think though.

So for any of you out there who like Lifetime movies. I hope you enjoyed this.

 

[LuisGarcia10]

Honestly, I've been there. Admitedly I have never gone as far as to think I was in love, but I've had feelings that when you describe them to friends are written off as ridiculous.
Not mocking you at all, it's just there's no point in even bothering to talk about how to save this paticular scenario, when the logistics of the whole thing just make it an absolute waste of time.
If you're using online dating then do what I do about put a 25 mile distance limit on the searches!

 

[DonGorgon]

The fantasy is over for her..lol... she has other men where she lives and you are just an outside guy dont take her more seriously then she takes you..

and as we always say go get some now women ... women only have all this power cause they are always getting new men,..

 

[Atom Smasher]

Well, I'm sure someone out there read your advice and appreciated it. Even if this guy is faking it.

Thank you, kind sir.

Atom

 

[Iceberg]

I tried to take everything Atom Smasher and the rest of you said to heart last night. Particularly about oneitis, confidence, being the man, leading, giving up my power, ect. I'm sure I didn't do everything right last night, but I must have done enough right. I got the relationship back last night and feel like I have a much clearer head about things. We'll see where it goes from here. But its time to do things differently. Thanks so much for your help.

Thank god you got the relationship back.

I wonder if you'll return with new tales of struggle with your 21 year old, med school grad girlfriend.

"She was performing brain surgery on a man. And now she says she's in love with him. What do I do?!?!?"