"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need help!

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Yea so this just an introductory. I'll just get started by saying that im 19 I go to a university, i have a lot of friends, im good looking (idk people say i am lol) and i cant pick up a girl to save my life. Im pretty sure i know what im doing wrong but i just dont know how to fix it. I really just dont think i know how to flirt properly and i never give a hint to a girl that im attracted to her. Like tonight for instance, I threw a party at my apartment which had a lot of good looking girls and i just couldn't close with any of them. Anyway this is just a small rant about my failure of a night and because of this im convinced that i need to change my personality a bit cause what im doing now aint working lol.

So any advice about flirting or anything similar would be greatly appreciated. Otherwise expect to see me around on this site lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes you do need to start with the DJ Bible.

It's really hard this early in the game and with the little information provided to pinpoint anything really.

Remember not to take the dating world to seriously. You are out to have fun. You should always be developing / be wearing a brilliant and indestructable smile that no amount of rejection, mistakes, or hate can take away from you. You should not stress yourself out with the pursuit of women. It should become as natural as walking or talking, both of which you learned to do with a lot of practice and crashing and failing.

Always take everything you read on the internet and this forum with a grain of salt. Most people don't know what they are talking about. And when it comes to the people who do, their "techniques", "abilities", everything they teach is usually tailored from their experience. Everyone is different, what works for one person may not work for another, you're going to have to develop your own "DaGreatOne" (or whatever you call yourself) methods. :cool:

Develop other areas of your life. Whatever your passions in life are, what your studying in school, your hobbies. These need to remain focuses in your life. As a college student especially you need to remember that your diploma is THE focus of your life right now. Not parties, not women...Not to say you can't indulge and have fun, but they really need on the back burner.

I could rant and babble on and on.
Welcome to the forums bro!!! :D

P.S. DON'T EVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!
 
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