"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I need help!

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Yea so this just an introductory. I'll just get started by saying that im 19 I go to a university, i have a lot of friends, im good looking (idk people say i am lol) and i cant pick up a girl to save my life. Im pretty sure i know what im doing wrong but i just dont know how to fix it. I really just dont think i know how to flirt properly and i never give a hint to a girl that im attracted to her. Like tonight for instance, I threw a party at my apartment which had a lot of good looking girls and i just couldn't close with any of them. Anyway this is just a small rant about my failure of a night and because of this im convinced that i need to change my personality a bit cause what im doing now aint working lol.

So any advice about flirting or anything similar would be greatly appreciated. Otherwise expect to see me around on this site lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes you do need to start with the DJ Bible.

It's really hard this early in the game and with the little information provided to pinpoint anything really.

Remember not to take the dating world to seriously. You are out to have fun. You should always be developing / be wearing a brilliant and indestructable smile that no amount of rejection, mistakes, or hate can take away from you. You should not stress yourself out with the pursuit of women. It should become as natural as walking or talking, both of which you learned to do with a lot of practice and crashing and failing.

Always take everything you read on the internet and this forum with a grain of salt. Most people don't know what they are talking about. And when it comes to the people who do, their "techniques", "abilities", everything they teach is usually tailored from their experience. Everyone is different, what works for one person may not work for another, you're going to have to develop your own "DaGreatOne" (or whatever you call yourself) methods. :cool:

Develop other areas of your life. Whatever your passions in life are, what your studying in school, your hobbies. These need to remain focuses in your life. As a college student especially you need to remember that your diploma is THE focus of your life right now. Not parties, not women...Not to say you can't indulge and have fun, but they really need on the back burner.

I could rant and babble on and on.
Welcome to the forums bro!!! :D

P.S. DON'T EVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!
 
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