"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need help!

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Yea so this just an introductory. I'll just get started by saying that im 19 I go to a university, i have a lot of friends, im good looking (idk people say i am lol) and i cant pick up a girl to save my life. Im pretty sure i know what im doing wrong but i just dont know how to fix it. I really just dont think i know how to flirt properly and i never give a hint to a girl that im attracted to her. Like tonight for instance, I threw a party at my apartment which had a lot of good looking girls and i just couldn't close with any of them. Anyway this is just a small rant about my failure of a night and because of this im convinced that i need to change my personality a bit cause what im doing now aint working lol.

So any advice about flirting or anything similar would be greatly appreciated. Otherwise expect to see me around on this site lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes you do need to start with the DJ Bible.

It's really hard this early in the game and with the little information provided to pinpoint anything really.

Remember not to take the dating world to seriously. You are out to have fun. You should always be developing / be wearing a brilliant and indestructable smile that no amount of rejection, mistakes, or hate can take away from you. You should not stress yourself out with the pursuit of women. It should become as natural as walking or talking, both of which you learned to do with a lot of practice and crashing and failing.

Always take everything you read on the internet and this forum with a grain of salt. Most people don't know what they are talking about. And when it comes to the people who do, their "techniques", "abilities", everything they teach is usually tailored from their experience. Everyone is different, what works for one person may not work for another, you're going to have to develop your own "DaGreatOne" (or whatever you call yourself) methods. :cool:

Develop other areas of your life. Whatever your passions in life are, what your studying in school, your hobbies. These need to remain focuses in your life. As a college student especially you need to remember that your diploma is THE focus of your life right now. Not parties, not women...Not to say you can't indulge and have fun, but they really need on the back burner.

I could rant and babble on and on.
Welcome to the forums bro!!! :D

P.S. DON'T EVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!!
 
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