"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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I need help preparing for this date

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Vikman

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I'm going in a date Saturday, first date. We're going to a night club. What should I do specifically to nail this date?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alwayslead8821

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well.... Don't try to hard, just have a good time. Talk to everyone and joke around with people as much as possible (building social value). DO not just be all positive and try to impress her... use push pull, if she does something awkward jokingly make fun of her (like call her a dork or something). Eventually if you are doing good you need to break the touch barrier. I think night clubs are the easiest to do this at. It is so ****ing loud in them that all you have to do is touch her arm or shoulder and slightly pull her to you.. If it is going good (she is returning touching OR she is really happy) I'll start talking closer to her ear and "accidentaly" hit her neck with my lips or her ear.. Works like a charm if you do it right. Just play it as it goes man and don't over analyze. Do NOT put her on any pedestul.. GOOODDDD LUCKKK MAN!
 
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Well, what is there really to do at a club. Drink and dance... Some might have pool tables. So, I'd say have fun and dance. Dont worry too much on trying to get to know her. You want to mainly focus on the fun and what you two are doing.
 
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Yes, the key is to HAVE FUN. Nightclubs are no no's for establishing deep conversations, unless you can isolate her somewhere quiet. Just have fun, apply moderate kino throughout, enjoy your drinks, and don't CLING on to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nightclub eh? Why bring sand to the beach? Get her back to your place as soon as possible, don't linger. If you do some other guy with better game may scoop her up, i've seen it happen.
 
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