dannowillbookem
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exactly. after a while you can mack your way to the hearts of a few fuglies (and get rejected by even more of them), and you'll have some basic conversation skills developed.dreamx said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I need help on what kind of clothes,shoes,and humor and I need tips on girls!!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
lettttsss focus on those basic conversation skills for nowMuphaser said:
Ok heres another example of c0cky&funny like I made up
Me:so you think im dorky
Girl:umm yeah
Me:why because I look way better then you,so you call me that
Girl:*laughs* your good looking dork
Me:Well no duh
Me:you look like superwoman
Girl:*laughs* thanks
Is that good or bad??And do I ask for the number by the time???
Me:so you think im dorky
Girl:umm yeah
Me:why because I look way better then you,so you call me that
Girl:*laughs* your good looking dork
Me:Well no duh
Me:you look like superwoman
Girl:*laughs* thanks
Is that good or bad??And do I ask for the number by the time???
BTW man, approaching random girls at the mall or anywhere is hard for anyone in high school. mostly because most high school girls only consider going out with guys they feel comfortable with (not just random people) so don't get discouraged if you don't get the results u want at first. honestly, itd be hard for me to go up to a random girl and hit on her if she didnt give me the "go-ahead" first (eye contact/smiling). if they smile at u then that gives u a reason to go to them and they feel like the ones on the defensive
SO i think itd be best for u to not focus on hot girls until u got the basics of a good conversation down
/\why would u call her superwoman?
SO i think itd be best for u to not focus on hot girls until u got the basics of a good conversation down
/\why would u call her superwoman?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VegasGuy56
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What....the ****.....
Well no duh,im a human you idiot look I don't need to read your negative comments.I just wanted to know if my lines of c0cky&funny which I never used before would be good a simple yes or no(explain why it doesnt work) is all I want to know.Not some ****en stupid posts you make, the world is ****ed with people like you!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude stop being surcastic im not trying to joke its just I wondered if it would ever work, I dont need your surcastic( I hate that).If you don't stop that me and your mom will take away the computer and internet meaning you will have nothing no more,so you cant play with yourself,lol
VegasGuy56
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You mean, like....coming out of the closet?Mctwist4 said:
Dude you know how skinny and weak I am,if I was in the wrestling team the guys would hurt me and probaly tease me.But I joined the math club and im planning on joining the tennis team as well.But yeah I do need to work on improving myself and my life.
originaldj
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If that is the funniest you get, you might as wll give up now. The only place you are picking chicks up is at a funeral.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
VegasGuy56
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Hey, look who's talking.
BTW, you've posted more in the month you've been here than I have in almost a year.
BTW, you've posted more in the month you've been here than I have in almost a year.
originaldj
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DreamX, you are in position to tell someone he isnt funny.
shydude
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dreamx said:
if u think thats funny, than thats just sad. Its for retards
Ok guys I get it wasn't funny it was worth a try.MCtwist dude but I would get hurt in wrestling, I mean my own dad calls me a wimp for a reason.Wrestling isn't for me,plus nobody will like me.But besides tennis do you think soccer is a good sport???
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.