"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need help on what kind of clothes,shoes,and humor and I need tips on girls!!!!

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GOOD POINT,ugly chicks make me less nervous I notice that and yeah maybe they might like the same things me!!!
exactly. after a while you can mack your way to the hearts of a few fuglies (and get rejected by even more of them), and you'll have some basic conversation skills developed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok heres another example of c0cky&funny like I made up

Me:so you think im dorky
Girl:umm yeah
Me:why because I look way better then you,so you call me that
Girl:*laughs* your good looking dork
Me:Well no duh
Me:you look like superwoman
Girl:*laughs* thanks

Is that good or bad??And do I ask for the number by the time???
 

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BTW man, approaching random girls at the mall or anywhere is hard for anyone in high school. mostly because most high school girls only consider going out with guys they feel comfortable with (not just random people) so don't get discouraged if you don't get the results u want at first. honestly, itd be hard for me to go up to a random girl and hit on her if she didnt give me the "go-ahead" first (eye contact/smiling). if they smile at u then that gives u a reason to go to them and they feel like the ones on the defensive

SO i think itd be best for u to not focus on hot girls until u got the basics of a good conversation down

/\why would u call her superwoman?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dont blatantly complement her. If you going to give her a complement, make it subtle.
Make yourself different by not coughing out a "you look beautiful" afc-ish line
 

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dreamx said:
Ok heres another example of c0cky&funny like I made up

Me:so you think im dorky
Girl:umm yeah
Me:why because I look way better then you,so you call me that
Girl:*laughs* your good looking dork
Me:Well no duh
Me:you look like superwoman
Girl:*laughs* thanks

Is that good or bad??And do I ask for the number by the time???
This is the guy that gets great marks and is going to a great college.

OUR FUTURE.

THE WORLD IS ****ED.

Some people are WAY beyond help.

Are you human?

What the **** is WRONG with you?
 

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Well no duh,im a human you idiot look I don't need to read your negative comments.I just wanted to know if my lines of c0cky&funny which I never used before would be good a simple yes or no(explain why it doesnt work) is all I want to know.Not some ****en stupid posts you make, the world is ****ed with people like you!
 

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I have read the c&f articles in the bible so I thought I can make my own.Well can you guys give me good examples of c&f to random girls???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dreamx said:
Well no duh,im a human you idiot look I don't need to read your negative comments.I just wanted to know if my lines of c0cky&funny which I never used before would be good a simple yes or no(explain why it doesnt work) is all I want to know.Not some ****en stupid posts you make, the world is ****ed with people like you!
You look like Batman! Tee-Hee!

(I'm using my ****y funny skills like you. Is it working?)
 

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Dude stop being surcastic im not trying to joke its just I wondered if it would ever work, I dont need your surcastic( I hate that).If you don't stop that me and your mom will take away the computer and internet meaning you will have nothing no more,so you cant play with yourself,lol :D
 

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Dude you know how skinny and weak I am,if I was in the wrestling team the guys would hurt me and probaly tease me.But I joined the math club and im planning on joining the tennis team as well.But yeah I do need to work on improving myself and my life.
 

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If that is the funniest you get, you might as wll give up now. The only place you are picking chicks up is at a funeral.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VegasGuy your not funny,get off the computer and get a life loser!
 

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Hey, look who's talking.

BTW, you've posted more in the month you've been here than I have in almost a year.
 

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dreamx said:
And im going to be posting on what I think are good c0cky&funny lines I just made them up,but tell me if these lines will work on a girl.Example:

Me:hey baby
Girl:hey
Me:Where are you going to night?
Girl:To a trip
Me:A trip to my house,wow baby your beatiful
Me:Lets get married,we are in love,yes!!
Girl:Ok when do you want to get married
Me:When I want to
Thats just an example do you think that would be a good conversation using c0cky&funny with a random girl???

if u think thats funny, than thats just sad. Its for retards:eek:
 

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Ok guys I get it wasn't funny it was worth a try.MCtwist dude but I would get hurt in wrestling, I mean my own dad calls me a wimp for a reason.Wrestling isn't for me,plus nobody will like me.But besides tennis do you think soccer is a good sport???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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