dannowillbookem
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exactly. after a while you can mack your way to the hearts of a few fuglies (and get rejected by even more of them), and you'll have some basic conversation skills developed.dreamx said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I need help on what kind of clothes,shoes,and humor and I need tips on girls!!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
lettttsss focus on those basic conversation skills for nowMuphaser said:
Ok heres another example of c0cky&funny like I made up
Me:so you think im dorky
Girl:umm yeah
Me:why because I look way better then you,so you call me that
Girl:*laughs* your good looking dork
Me:Well no duh
Me:you look like superwoman
Girl:*laughs* thanks
Is that good or bad??And do I ask for the number by the time???
Me:so you think im dorky
Girl:umm yeah
Me:why because I look way better then you,so you call me that
Girl:*laughs* your good looking dork
Me:Well no duh
Me:you look like superwoman
Girl:*laughs* thanks
Is that good or bad??And do I ask for the number by the time???
BTW man, approaching random girls at the mall or anywhere is hard for anyone in high school. mostly because most high school girls only consider going out with guys they feel comfortable with (not just random people) so don't get discouraged if you don't get the results u want at first. honestly, itd be hard for me to go up to a random girl and hit on her if she didnt give me the "go-ahead" first (eye contact/smiling). if they smile at u then that gives u a reason to go to them and they feel like the ones on the defensive
SO i think itd be best for u to not focus on hot girls until u got the basics of a good conversation down
/\why would u call her superwoman?
SO i think itd be best for u to not focus on hot girls until u got the basics of a good conversation down
/\why would u call her superwoman?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VegasGuy56
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What....the ****.....
Well no duh,im a human you idiot look I don't need to read your negative comments.I just wanted to know if my lines of c0cky&funny which I never used before would be good a simple yes or no(explain why it doesnt work) is all I want to know.Not some ****en stupid posts you make, the world is ****ed with people like you!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dude stop being surcastic im not trying to joke its just I wondered if it would ever work, I dont need your surcastic( I hate that).If you don't stop that me and your mom will take away the computer and internet meaning you will have nothing no more,so you cant play with yourself,lol
VegasGuy56
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You mean, like....coming out of the closet?Mctwist4 said:
Dude you know how skinny and weak I am,if I was in the wrestling team the guys would hurt me and probaly tease me.But I joined the math club and im planning on joining the tennis team as well.But yeah I do need to work on improving myself and my life.
originaldj
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If that is the funniest you get, you might as wll give up now. The only place you are picking chicks up is at a funeral.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VegasGuy56
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Hey, look who's talking.
BTW, you've posted more in the month you've been here than I have in almost a year.
BTW, you've posted more in the month you've been here than I have in almost a year.
originaldj
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DreamX, you are in position to tell someone he isnt funny.
shydude
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dreamx said:
if u think thats funny, than thats just sad. Its for retards
Ok guys I get it wasn't funny it was worth a try.MCtwist dude but I would get hurt in wrestling, I mean my own dad calls me a wimp for a reason.Wrestling isn't for me,plus nobody will like me.But besides tennis do you think soccer is a good sport???
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.