"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i need help guys

a-rookie

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I find this forum interesting.
I like someone at where I work.
I known her for 1yr 1/2 but as a co-worker, never really interacted , she has guy friends ( co workers).
I never really noticed her until a friend visiting me noticed her cute.
I kindah started liking her since she is the best of the group where we work.
(5 wks ago).
We went on a trip recently to miami as a field trip 2wks ago.
I tried approaching her and she would avoid eye contact or being around me.
in the whole trip.
We went to a club and i asked her to dance since she was siitng while all of cooworkers were having fun, and she said no.,She sat the whole time.
I see her everyday mon. -fri . I give her space, so i won't be in her face.

I don't understand her, I want to try to challenge myself .

I am bit confused since in 8 months she will be going back to her hometown for good.
the cocowrkers are getting together again on wednesday night I know she will be there.

i wouldn't want to let this pass without trying , guys please help me.
 

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ValleyDJing

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Dude, you asked her to dance and she said no. She's probably not interested. Forget about her. There's plenty more fish in the sea. If she tries to initiate contact with you...punch her in the face. jp. The thought was just funny to me and I felt like typing it. If she tries to initiate contact with you then we can reevaluate. And I'm talking about REAL contact, not just some stupid bulls.hit offhand comment. I'm talking if she starts flirting with you or something. Got it?
 

a-rookie

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I 've been wating for her to talk to me, she does but very limited and short.
more work related. I try to keep eye contact and firm tone, polite when this happens. A friend of mine who knows her better told me that she is immature and stupid.
How should I hold my position with her ?
 
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