"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i need help guys

a-rookie

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I find this forum interesting.
I like someone at where I work.
I known her for 1yr 1/2 but as a co-worker, never really interacted , she has guy friends ( co workers).
I never really noticed her until a friend visiting me noticed her cute.
I kindah started liking her since she is the best of the group where we work.
(5 wks ago).
We went on a trip recently to miami as a field trip 2wks ago.
I tried approaching her and she would avoid eye contact or being around me.
in the whole trip.
We went to a club and i asked her to dance since she was siitng while all of cooworkers were having fun, and she said no.,She sat the whole time.
I see her everyday mon. -fri . I give her space, so i won't be in her face.

I don't understand her, I want to try to challenge myself .

I am bit confused since in 8 months she will be going back to her hometown for good.
the cocowrkers are getting together again on wednesday night I know she will be there.

i wouldn't want to let this pass without trying , guys please help me.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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ValleyDJing

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Dude, you asked her to dance and she said no. She's probably not interested. Forget about her. There's plenty more fish in the sea. If she tries to initiate contact with you...punch her in the face. jp. The thought was just funny to me and I felt like typing it. If she tries to initiate contact with you then we can reevaluate. And I'm talking about REAL contact, not just some stupid bulls.hit offhand comment. I'm talking if she starts flirting with you or something. Got it?
 

a-rookie

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I 've been wating for her to talk to me, she does but very limited and short.
more work related. I try to keep eye contact and firm tone, polite when this happens. A friend of mine who knows her better told me that she is immature and stupid.
How should I hold my position with her ?
 
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