"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I need help getting my Priorities

Rint

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I need help guess big help i need to know how to get my priorities. My first one is popularity this will boost my confidense. My next one is more of a question do i need a bod? Do i need to work out? My biggest CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN not just the one i'm into i mean ALLL WOMEN. Can u guys help? Tutor mayb? or some threads that are good? Help me out guys THANX
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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immrtlwun

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Have you tried searching the boards and reading the bible? There are tons of posts about all of these things. Go to the Health & Fitness forum and they have a lot of articles on getting in shape. The bible has convo tips and things of that nature.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by immrtlwun
Have you tried searching the boards and reading the bible? There are tons of posts about all of these things. Go to the Health & Fitness forum and they have a lot of articles on getting in shape. The bible has convo tips and things of that nature.
Agreed. But way before you work on popualrity, you nee dto work on your build, your hobbies, and your conversational skills. once you have developed these enough, you will be well of to stting your priorities better.
 

j8snx1

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1) Popularity: It's a good supplement to your confidence, but you don't have to be the "Super popular bad-ass dude on campus" to get girls' attention. Build a lot of rapport with some guys and lots of girls (which helps with your image :woo: ).

2) Body: It's also a good supplement when it comes to DJing, but it's not a REQUIREMENT, although it is highly encouraged! Working out will help you feel better about yourself anyway.
 
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