"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I need help getting my Priorities

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Rint

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I need help guess big help i need to know how to get my priorities. My first one is popularity this will boost my confidense. My next one is more of a question do i need a bod? Do i need to work out? My biggest CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN not just the one i'm into i mean ALLL WOMEN. Can u guys help? Tutor mayb? or some threads that are good? Help me out guys THANX
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you tried searching the boards and reading the bible? There are tons of posts about all of these things. Go to the Health & Fitness forum and they have a lot of articles on getting in shape. The bible has convo tips and things of that nature.
 
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Originally posted by immrtlwun
Have you tried searching the boards and reading the bible? There are tons of posts about all of these things. Go to the Health & Fitness forum and they have a lot of articles on getting in shape. The bible has convo tips and things of that nature.
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Agreed. But way before you work on popualrity, you nee dto work on your build, your hobbies, and your conversational skills. once you have developed these enough, you will be well of to stting your priorities better.
 
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1) Popularity: It's a good supplement to your confidence, but you don't have to be the "Super popular bad-ass dude on campus" to get girls' attention. Build a lot of rapport with some guys and lots of girls (which helps with your image :woo: ).

2) Body: It's also a good supplement when it comes to DJing, but it's not a REQUIREMENT, although it is highly encouraged! Working out will help you feel better about yourself anyway.
 
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