"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I need help getting my Priorities

Rint

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I need help guess big help i need to know how to get my priorities. My first one is popularity this will boost my confidense. My next one is more of a question do i need a bod? Do i need to work out? My biggest CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN not just the one i'm into i mean ALLL WOMEN. Can u guys help? Tutor mayb? or some threads that are good? Help me out guys THANX
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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immrtlwun

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Have you tried searching the boards and reading the bible? There are tons of posts about all of these things. Go to the Health & Fitness forum and they have a lot of articles on getting in shape. The bible has convo tips and things of that nature.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by immrtlwun
Have you tried searching the boards and reading the bible? There are tons of posts about all of these things. Go to the Health & Fitness forum and they have a lot of articles on getting in shape. The bible has convo tips and things of that nature.
Agreed. But way before you work on popualrity, you nee dto work on your build, your hobbies, and your conversational skills. once you have developed these enough, you will be well of to stting your priorities better.
 

j8snx1

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1) Popularity: It's a good supplement to your confidence, but you don't have to be the "Super popular bad-ass dude on campus" to get girls' attention. Build a lot of rapport with some guys and lots of girls (which helps with your image :woo: ).

2) Body: It's also a good supplement when it comes to DJing, but it's not a REQUIREMENT, although it is highly encouraged! Working out will help you feel better about yourself anyway.
 
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