"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need help getting back on track

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rockman

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I used to just lurk, but I feel its time to really state my problem here.

Im a junior in hs and i've never had a gf nor have i ever hooked up with a girl. The farthest Ive ever gone was just some freaking once or twice. Not only that, but I always feel myself getting uncomfortable and nervous whenever i talk to a girl. I just dunno why I find myself incapable of talking to a girl! It seems like im always drawing blanks in my head and dont know what to say! Im not one of those guys that only cares about getting in a girls pants; all I want is to just get to know a girl really well, possibly go out with her, and maybe then I'll have a shot at hooking up or something.

I was just wondering if there was any advice you guys could give me to sort of fix these problems. Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What helped me a great load was that show The Pickup Artist with Mystery.Then I started watching Keys to the Vip which also helped greatly.Just youtube them and you will see.

I see a bunch of guys at school with this problem as well.Let me guess you can socialize PERFECTLY WELL with guys but not with girls?Its because your not attracted to them and therefore you dont really get nervous and dont really care what you say.

Treat her like you would to a friend.Talk about whatever is on your mind.Be spontaneous.What also helped me was to watch sucessful people with girls or very funny guys and watch their style.You can never guess what comes out of their mouth but they make it wild and unpredictable and it comes out great.
 
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Yeah thats exactly the prob lol. I can talk normally around all my guy friends but I just get really nervous and uncomfortable around girls. I'll definitely try some of your advice tho.

Thanks
 
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