I need help getting back on track

[rockman]

I used to just lurk, but I feel its time to really state my problem here.

Im a junior in hs and i've never had a gf nor have i ever hooked up with a girl. The farthest Ive ever gone was just some freaking once or twice. Not only that, but I always feel myself getting uncomfortable and nervous whenever i talk to a girl. I just dunno why I find myself incapable of talking to a girl! It seems like im always drawing blanks in my head and dont know what to say! Im not one of those guys that only cares about getting in a girls pants; all I want is to just get to know a girl really well, possibly go out with her, and maybe then I'll have a shot at hooking up or something.

I was just wondering if there was any advice you guys could give me to sort of fix these problems. Thanks.

 

[rockman]

any advice at all?

 

[619joe]

What helped me a great load was that show The Pickup Artist with Mystery.Then I started watching Keys to the Vip which also helped greatly.Just youtube them and you will see.

I see a bunch of guys at school with this problem as well.Let me guess you can socialize PERFECTLY WELL with guys but not with girls?Its because your not attracted to them and therefore you dont really get nervous and dont really care what you say.

Treat her like you would to a friend.Talk about whatever is on your mind.Be spontaneous.What also helped me was to watch sucessful people with girls or very funny guys and watch their style.You can never guess what comes out of their mouth but they make it wild and unpredictable and it comes out great.

 

[rockman]

Yeah thats exactly the prob lol. I can talk normally around all my guy friends but I just get really nervous and uncomfortable around girls. I'll definitely try some of your advice tho.

Thanks