"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I need help getting back on track

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rockman

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I used to just lurk, but I feel its time to really state my problem here.

Im a junior in hs and i've never had a gf nor have i ever hooked up with a girl. The farthest Ive ever gone was just some freaking once or twice. Not only that, but I always feel myself getting uncomfortable and nervous whenever i talk to a girl. I just dunno why I find myself incapable of talking to a girl! It seems like im always drawing blanks in my head and dont know what to say! Im not one of those guys that only cares about getting in a girls pants; all I want is to just get to know a girl really well, possibly go out with her, and maybe then I'll have a shot at hooking up or something.

I was just wondering if there was any advice you guys could give me to sort of fix these problems. Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What helped me a great load was that show The Pickup Artist with Mystery.Then I started watching Keys to the Vip which also helped greatly.Just youtube them and you will see.

I see a bunch of guys at school with this problem as well.Let me guess you can socialize PERFECTLY WELL with guys but not with girls?Its because your not attracted to them and therefore you dont really get nervous and dont really care what you say.

Treat her like you would to a friend.Talk about whatever is on your mind.Be spontaneous.What also helped me was to watch sucessful people with girls or very funny guys and watch their style.You can never guess what comes out of their mouth but they make it wild and unpredictable and it comes out great.
 
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Yeah thats exactly the prob lol. I can talk normally around all my guy friends but I just get really nervous and uncomfortable around girls. I'll definitely try some of your advice tho.

Thanks
 
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