"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need help changing my personality

Rint

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Would you guys mind helping a fellow DJ change his personality? People think i'm annoying when i'm talking to a girl she walks away when she see's a friend, and the "talking to a girl with questions" thing dousnt work. I need help being cool so people will want to hang out with me. Do you guys have any advice or what i would like is some sort of exercise i can do to become more like a DJ and less like a AFK (dont say talk to more people because that will make my reputation go down)

Thanx y'all
Rint
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ4Real

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Your personality is something that you have to work on by yourself.

It's nothing that a DJ on here can train you to do.
 

Docs

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What the hell do you talk about and how do you say it?
This isn't a personality thing, this is a depth perception thing.
 

shydude

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All you got to do is meet people, stop being anoying, dress, smell, look good, stay in shape, fell good!!! Always sleep good= you might think how that affects your life?? Well it does, you alwyas must fell and look good!


Then ofcourse you gotta give the girls some space man!! You probably pushing them to much!! Try not talking to them for a week and then talk to them then again ignore them, thy will fell more atrracted to u!! peace out
 

habdragon08

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laugh at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fitch

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habdragon08 said:
at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
What the F.U.C.K.?
:crackup:
 
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