"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need help changing my personality

Rint

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Would you guys mind helping a fellow DJ change his personality? People think i'm annoying when i'm talking to a girl she walks away when she see's a friend, and the "talking to a girl with questions" thing dousnt work. I need help being cool so people will want to hang out with me. Do you guys have any advice or what i would like is some sort of exercise i can do to become more like a DJ and less like a AFK (dont say talk to more people because that will make my reputation go down)

Thanx y'all
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ4Real

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Your personality is something that you have to work on by yourself.

It's nothing that a DJ on here can train you to do.
 

Docs

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What the hell do you talk about and how do you say it?
This isn't a personality thing, this is a depth perception thing.
 

shydude

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All you got to do is meet people, stop being anoying, dress, smell, look good, stay in shape, fell good!!! Always sleep good= you might think how that affects your life?? Well it does, you alwyas must fell and look good!


Then ofcourse you gotta give the girls some space man!! You probably pushing them to much!! Try not talking to them for a week and then talk to them then again ignore them, thy will fell more atrracted to u!! peace out
 

habdragon08

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laugh at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fitch

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habdragon08 said:
at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
What the F.U.C.K.?
:crackup:
 
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