"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need help changing my personality

Rint

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Would you guys mind helping a fellow DJ change his personality? People think i'm annoying when i'm talking to a girl she walks away when she see's a friend, and the "talking to a girl with questions" thing dousnt work. I need help being cool so people will want to hang out with me. Do you guys have any advice or what i would like is some sort of exercise i can do to become more like a DJ and less like a AFK (dont say talk to more people because that will make my reputation go down)

Thanx y'all
Rint
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ4Real

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Your personality is something that you have to work on by yourself.

It's nothing that a DJ on here can train you to do.
 

Docs

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What the hell do you talk about and how do you say it?
This isn't a personality thing, this is a depth perception thing.
 

shydude

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All you got to do is meet people, stop being anoying, dress, smell, look good, stay in shape, fell good!!! Always sleep good= you might think how that affects your life?? Well it does, you alwyas must fell and look good!


Then ofcourse you gotta give the girls some space man!! You probably pushing them to much!! Try not talking to them for a week and then talk to them then again ignore them, thy will fell more atrracted to u!! peace out
 

habdragon08

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laugh at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fitch

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habdragon08 said:
at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
What the F.U.C.K.?
:crackup:
 
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