"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would you guys mind helping a fellow DJ change his personality? People think i'm annoying when i'm talking to a girl she walks away when she see's a friend, and the "talking to a girl with questions" thing dousnt work. I need help being cool so people will want to hang out with me. Do you guys have any advice or what i would like is some sort of exercise i can do to become more like a DJ and less like a AFK (dont say talk to more people because that will make my reputation go down)

Thanx y'all
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your personality is something that you have to work on by yourself.

It's nothing that a DJ on here can train you to do.
 
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What the hell do you talk about and how do you say it?
This isn't a personality thing, this is a depth perception thing.
 
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All you got to do is meet people, stop being anoying, dress, smell, look good, stay in shape, fell good!!! Always sleep good= you might think how that affects your life?? Well it does, you alwyas must fell and look good!


Then ofcourse you gotta give the girls some space man!! You probably pushing them to much!! Try not talking to them for a week and then talk to them then again ignore them, thy will fell more atrracted to u!! peace out
 
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laugh at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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habdragon08 said:
at everything anyone says, you'll come off as cool



trust me it works if its a genuine laugh
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What the F.U.C.K.?
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