I need help asap

[ImFrazy]

But she would be like it’s not the right time and she would say she wouldn’t have any feeling toward it

 

[Nycmfer]

You should never look through her ****. Is there reason not to trust her?

 

[Glassguy]

Recently I just started talking to this girl in December. She said she just got out of a relationship. Within a month she moved in with me. I was looking through her phone because obviously of my trust and insecurity which I should have never done now that I found these forums. She moved out an left a few things she still hasn’t come to get. I’ve reminded her of it once and she said she’ll come get it another day but still hasn’t.

Last night I was texting her an I waited a little bit on her text like between 15-25 mins. She told me she was applying for jobs and all I said was “Nice” she then said sometimes our text are dry and she’s said this before so I said “Ok lmao, and what did you apply for?” She said “A job” at first then a few seconds later opened the messages back up and said that she applied for a few other jobs. She then got mad talking about some girl I use to know because she has a fan page and she goes to assume I’ve been talking to her. I told her she can think as she wishes. When she went through this little for I just told her I was helping my friend with something hence the text “Nice”. I told her I was busy helping my friend.
Ive apologized before for looking through her phone an this is like the second time she’s brought it up.
She text me this morning saying it’s not about you being busy it’s just some things you’ve done that it’s hard for me to trusts you. I’m yet to respond to this. I don’t want to be apologizing again. I feel like that’s the wrong move. That would make me chase her even more.
Note that she respond to me rather quickly within 1-10 minutes. When I was making her wait a little before I responded she would reply with like 1 minute if not less.

what approach should I take here? I’m sure apologizing won’t do any good Because I’ve done that already

Go away troll

 

[ImFrazy]

Do you have a sexual relationship with her? Any feelings for her?

I mean on the sexual not really kind of read what I said before

 

[Nycmfer]

I do yeah

An apology makes you a man. Say that you're sorry and will never do it again. Say it as sincerely as you can. Say it strongly like a President would. If she counters, be firm and say that you are working on those issues. Dont look needy. Don't talk too crazy about your relationship with her anymore. Let her do the talking.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So what should I say to her response

obviously I want a relationship but it’s clear I need to raise my value at the same time.
Her latest response was “well you haven’t done things that aren’t so great either. I understand you are busy sometimes, so it has nothing to do with that. It’s the other things you have done that is hard to trusts you” note I do want a relationship

Men don't chase relationships or check text messages and phone logs, that is for women to do. You are playing a female role in this relationship which is causing her to question your male qualities.

 

[ImFrazy]

Tbh I’ve apologized before so I don’t think I need to again
@Nycmfer

 

[ImFrazy]

Like she would even cook food for me when I came home from work

 

[Igetit!]

Go away troll

DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!.........

We have a WINNER!!!


I was wondering when someone was going to catch on.

This is too ridiculous to be true.

 

[Glassguy]

DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!.........

We have a WINNER!!!


I was wondering when someone was going to catch on.

This is too ridiculous to be true.

Yeah. There is no way people are that stupid and immature when it comes to women. I mean there are some real people that test that theory.....