"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i need advice on how to get ths girl..

gherald

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well this girl is hot...

ive known her for awhile...and vice versa...but we havent had a good converstion becoz we're juz classmates on 1 subject....

i planning to give her a letter this coming class saying that ill walk her home...
is this adviceable...

if not..what would you suggest?

i really need help...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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btw...i only see her on that specific one hour of class....so we cant talk because theres a class and after clas..we both have our classes...
 

rocky_mtn

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How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. Passing her a note is so 4th grade.
 

librito

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hey herald, you stricked out with this girl.
this is a big league forum, so please read the DJ bible.
another thing, ,,,, have you heard of oneities?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Trapper

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"How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. "
bingo........nothing to say a lot...
 

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I would venture to guess if you've known her for a while she more than likely knows you're interested,and you are just now thinking of "doing something" about the situation; I would say your time has passed. Don't focus so much on one female; keep your mind open to other possibilities and act on what you feel when you feel it. In most cases that would be the best approach.
 

Kings_royalty

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No notes, ever. If you have known her for a while, chances are she's placed you into the 'friend zone'. It may be difficult to come out of it, but not impossible.

Try to get her interested (raise her IL) in you, get her to notice your confident, cool side. Start walking into the class room like you own it, with attitude (you'll be surprised how girls 'notice' guys who behave this way). Girls can sense you 'status' the minute you walk into a room. Don't act like a d*ck, or an arrogant a$$hole though (big difference). You'll actually start getting more than just 'her' attention if you start carrying yourself this way.

Once she starts paying you more attention (they can't help it, it's what all women do when they sense an Alpha in the room) then you can start a little kino and flirting with her. Look at her from across the room, give her a wink and go on about your business. Play it cool, confident, etc.

Hope this helped some.
 

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"Hey, I've known you for some time now, give me your number so I call you afterwards to get to know each other".
 
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