"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i need advice on how to get ths girl..

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gherald

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well this girl is hot...

ive known her for awhile...and vice versa...but we havent had a good converstion becoz we're juz classmates on 1 subject....

i planning to give her a letter this coming class saying that ill walk her home...
is this adviceable...

if not..what would you suggest?

i really need help...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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btw...i only see her on that specific one hour of class....so we cant talk because theres a class and after clas..we both have our classes...
 
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How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. Passing her a note is so 4th grade.
 
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librito

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hey herald, you stricked out with this girl.
this is a big league forum, so please read the DJ bible.
another thing, ,,,, have you heard of oneities?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. "
bingo........nothing to say a lot...
 
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I would venture to guess if you've known her for a while she more than likely knows you're interested,and you are just now thinking of "doing something" about the situation; I would say your time has passed. Don't focus so much on one female; keep your mind open to other possibilities and act on what you feel when you feel it. In most cases that would be the best approach.
 
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No notes, ever. If you have known her for a while, chances are she's placed you into the 'friend zone'. It may be difficult to come out of it, but not impossible.

Try to get her interested (raise her IL) in you, get her to notice your confident, cool side. Start walking into the class room like you own it, with attitude (you'll be surprised how girls 'notice' guys who behave this way). Girls can sense you 'status' the minute you walk into a room. Don't act like a d*ck, or an arrogant a$$hole though (big difference). You'll actually start getting more than just 'her' attention if you start carrying yourself this way.

Once she starts paying you more attention (they can't help it, it's what all women do when they sense an Alpha in the room) then you can start a little kino and flirting with her. Look at her from across the room, give her a wink and go on about your business. Play it cool, confident, etc.

Hope this helped some.
 
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"Hey, I've known you for some time now, give me your number so I call you afterwards to get to know each other".
 
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