"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i need advice on how to get ths girl..

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gherald

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well this girl is hot...

ive known her for awhile...and vice versa...but we havent had a good converstion becoz we're juz classmates on 1 subject....

i planning to give her a letter this coming class saying that ill walk her home...
is this adviceable...

if not..what would you suggest?

i really need help...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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btw...i only see her on that specific one hour of class....so we cant talk because theres a class and after clas..we both have our classes...
 
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How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. Passing her a note is so 4th grade.
 
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librito

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hey herald, you stricked out with this girl.
this is a big league forum, so please read the DJ bible.
another thing, ,,,, have you heard of oneities?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. "
bingo........nothing to say a lot...
 
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I would venture to guess if you've known her for a while she more than likely knows you're interested,and you are just now thinking of "doing something" about the situation; I would say your time has passed. Don't focus so much on one female; keep your mind open to other possibilities and act on what you feel when you feel it. In most cases that would be the best approach.
 
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No notes, ever. If you have known her for a while, chances are she's placed you into the 'friend zone'. It may be difficult to come out of it, but not impossible.

Try to get her interested (raise her IL) in you, get her to notice your confident, cool side. Start walking into the class room like you own it, with attitude (you'll be surprised how girls 'notice' guys who behave this way). Girls can sense you 'status' the minute you walk into a room. Don't act like a d*ck, or an arrogant a$$hole though (big difference). You'll actually start getting more than just 'her' attention if you start carrying yourself this way.

Once she starts paying you more attention (they can't help it, it's what all women do when they sense an Alpha in the room) then you can start a little kino and flirting with her. Look at her from across the room, give her a wink and go on about your business. Play it cool, confident, etc.

Hope this helped some.
 
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"Hey, I've known you for some time now, give me your number so I call you afterwards to get to know each other".
 
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