"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i need advice on how to get ths girl..

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well this girl is hot...

ive known her for awhile...and vice versa...but we havent had a good converstion becoz we're juz classmates on 1 subject....

i planning to give her a letter this coming class saying that ill walk her home...
is this adviceable...

if not..what would you suggest?

i really need help...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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btw...i only see her on that specific one hour of class....so we cant talk because theres a class and after clas..we both have our classes...
 
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How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. Passing her a note is so 4th grade.
 
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hey herald, you stricked out with this girl.
this is a big league forum, so please read the DJ bible.
another thing, ,,,, have you heard of oneities?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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"How about just asking her if she wouldn't mind if you walked her home. "
bingo........nothing to say a lot...
 
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I would venture to guess if you've known her for a while she more than likely knows you're interested,and you are just now thinking of "doing something" about the situation; I would say your time has passed. Don't focus so much on one female; keep your mind open to other possibilities and act on what you feel when you feel it. In most cases that would be the best approach.
 
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No notes, ever. If you have known her for a while, chances are she's placed you into the 'friend zone'. It may be difficult to come out of it, but not impossible.

Try to get her interested (raise her IL) in you, get her to notice your confident, cool side. Start walking into the class room like you own it, with attitude (you'll be surprised how girls 'notice' guys who behave this way). Girls can sense you 'status' the minute you walk into a room. Don't act like a d*ck, or an arrogant a$$hole though (big difference). You'll actually start getting more than just 'her' attention if you start carrying yourself this way.

Once she starts paying you more attention (they can't help it, it's what all women do when they sense an Alpha in the room) then you can start a little kino and flirting with her. Look at her from across the room, give her a wink and go on about your business. Play it cool, confident, etc.

Hope this helped some.
 
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"Hey, I've known you for some time now, give me your number so I call you afterwards to get to know each other".
 
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