"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I need a new scent for the condo.

Which one do I get?

  • Buttercream

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • Sun & Sand

    Votes: 2 22.2%
  • French Vanilla

    Votes: 2 22.2%
  • Vanilla Lime

    Votes: 3 33.3%
  • Willow Breeze

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • Other

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
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Eccentric

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Damn you Yankee Candle. I got one of those electric air fresheners. Looking for something inviting but not overpowering.

Buttercream - Fresh churned butter creamed with confectioner's sugar and vanilla bean.

Sun & Sand - A tropical beach breeze of sweet orange flower, lemony citrus, fresh lavender and powdery musk.

French Vanilla (what I had before) - Uhh, it's Vanilla.

Vanilla Lime - Smooth and refreshing... the creamy richness of vanilla with sweet cane sugar and a zesty lime twist.

Willow Breeze - The lush, sweet aroma of green willow and lemon blossom spiced with Spanish moss and sandalwood.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PRMoon

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Dear God man! Just get a few glade pluggins and end it! As long as it smells nice to you, things are fine!
 

Eccentric

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What can I say... I'm picky lol.
 

PRMoon

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...okay look go to your local grocery store or walmart and pick up these free standing nonelectrical glass air freshners me and my room mates have. They all smell nice last longer and are fashionable...as they seem to blend with the rooms very easily... Plus they cost 2 dollars less then most electric air freshners...

...and don't f*cking ask how I arrived at this conclusion either...I just god d*mned know alright!!!

I'm out!
 
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Haha, how are we to vote on the poll if we can't smell anything! :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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buttercream , sun and sand, sweet honeysuckle, clean cotton, juicy peach, home sweet home
are all great
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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penkitten said:
buttercream , sun and sand, sweet honeysuckle, clean cotton, juicy peach, home sweet home
are all great
Hmmm, juicy peach....for some reason that seems more than appropriate.
 

KarmaSutra

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It's well documented women tend to lean more to Licorice, Leather and Lavender as favorite aroma's for naughty night time things.

But vanilla for everything else.
 

jp98502

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Id do one for your particular accasion- I know I cant spell.You tried incense?Nag champa? carefull tho u might smell hippyish tho.Some ppl like it, not all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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