"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need a new scent for the condo.

Which one do I get?

  • Buttercream

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • Sun & Sand

    Votes: 2 22.2%

  • French Vanilla

    Votes: 2 22.2%

  • Vanilla Lime

    Votes: 3 33.3%

  • Willow Breeze

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • Other

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
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Damn you Yankee Candle. I got one of those electric air fresheners. Looking for something inviting but not overpowering.

Buttercream - Fresh churned butter creamed with confectioner's sugar and vanilla bean.

Sun & Sand - A tropical beach breeze of sweet orange flower, lemony citrus, fresh lavender and powdery musk.

French Vanilla (what I had before) - Uhh, it's Vanilla.

Vanilla Lime - Smooth and refreshing... the creamy richness of vanilla with sweet cane sugar and a zesty lime twist.

Willow Breeze - The lush, sweet aroma of green willow and lemon blossom spiced with Spanish moss and sandalwood.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear God man! Just get a few glade pluggins and end it! As long as it smells nice to you, things are fine!
 
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What can I say... I'm picky lol.
 
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...okay look go to your local grocery store or walmart and pick up these free standing nonelectrical glass air freshners me and my room mates have. They all smell nice last longer and are fashionable...as they seem to blend with the rooms very easily... Plus they cost 2 dollars less then most electric air freshners...

...and don't f*cking ask how I arrived at this conclusion either...I just god d*mned know alright!!!

I'm out!
 
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Haha, how are we to vote on the poll if we can't smell anything! :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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buttercream , sun and sand, sweet honeysuckle, clean cotton, juicy peach, home sweet home
are all great
 
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penkitten said:
buttercream , sun and sand, sweet honeysuckle, clean cotton, juicy peach, home sweet home
are all great
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Hmmm, juicy peach....for some reason that seems more than appropriate.
 
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It's well documented women tend to lean more to Licorice, Leather and Lavender as favorite aroma's for naughty night time things.

But vanilla for everything else.
 
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Id do one for your particular accasion- I know I cant spell.You tried incense?Nag champa? carefull tho u might smell hippyish tho.Some ppl like it, not all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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