"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I Need A Good Response!

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Hi guys,

I'm just doing some internet dating and have just mailed a really cute girl, and she's responded, so I don't want to mess it up. I could use a few ideas for a response to her reply.

Me: "Hi P, if you're not gonna eat those chocolates in the photo, can I have them!?"
Her: "Well you'd better come and get them then!"

I'm not sure what to say next.... any suggestions to keep her attention!!?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You should facilitate that." You might throw in a smiley face, too. Chicks like that sort of sh1t I think.
 

Iceberg

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TyTe`EyEz said:
"You should facilitate that." You might throw in a smiley face, too. Chicks like that sort of sh1t I think.
And "lolz". That should do it.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
IMO, only acceptable smilies to use are : ) and : o. As they would appear on msn, without the spaces I have put in. Anything else is stupid, pointless, and probably conveys the wrong message. And use them scarcely. There's nothing more girly than using lots of smilies...
 
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