"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Need A Good Response!

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Hi guys,

I'm just doing some internet dating and have just mailed a really cute girl, and she's responded, so I don't want to mess it up. I could use a few ideas for a response to her reply.

Me: "Hi P, if you're not gonna eat those chocolates in the photo, can I have them!?"
Her: "Well you'd better come and get them then!"

I'm not sure what to say next.... any suggestions to keep her attention!!?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You should facilitate that." You might throw in a smiley face, too. Chicks like that sort of sh1t I think.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
"You should facilitate that." You might throw in a smiley face, too. Chicks like that sort of sh1t I think.
And "lolz". That should do it.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
IMO, only acceptable smilies to use are : ) and : o. As they would appear on msn, without the spaces I have put in. Anything else is stupid, pointless, and probably conveys the wrong message. And use them scarcely. There's nothing more girly than using lots of smilies...
 
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