"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Need A Good Response!

barker

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Hi guys,

I'm just doing some internet dating and have just mailed a really cute girl, and she's responded, so I don't want to mess it up. I could use a few ideas for a response to her reply.

Me: "Hi P, if you're not gonna eat those chocolates in the photo, can I have them!?"
Her: "Well you'd better come and get them then!"

I'm not sure what to say next.... any suggestions to keep her attention!!?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"You should facilitate that." You might throw in a smiley face, too. Chicks like that sort of sh1t I think.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
"You should facilitate that." You might throw in a smiley face, too. Chicks like that sort of sh1t I think.
And "lolz". That should do it.
 

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
IMO, only acceptable smilies to use are : ) and : o. As they would appear on msn, without the spaces I have put in. Anything else is stupid, pointless, and probably conveys the wrong message. And use them scarcely. There's nothing more girly than using lots of smilies...
 
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