Will900
Don Juan
I have been looking for a GF for ages i just cant find the right girl. its hurts deep down. someone come up with some ideas for me. Cheers!!!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I need a girlfriend help!!!!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
You are pathetic... but you came to the right place..
Please give us more information...
Please give us more information...
ShizamDaMan
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If you can't love yourself, then how can you expect someone else to do so?
Think long and hard about this, and get back to us. Like Mac said, you came to the right place.
Think long and hard about this, and get back to us. Like Mac said, you came to the right place.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Maybe you looking for a girlfriend is sending detremental body language to the female.
Desdinova
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Reasons why having a girlfriend is relevant to your existance:
- You cannot breathe without a girlfriend
- You require a girlfriend to eat
- You cannot ejaculate without a girlfriend
- You cannot get a job without a girlfriend
- You cannot have a place to live without a girlfriend
- You cannot have hobbies without a girlfriend
Does all of the above makes sense?
Didn't think so.
There is no logical reason why you NEED a girlfriend. However, a woman can be a challenging and even rewarding addition to your life, which can also be said of buying a car.
Learn to live without a woman instead of basing your existance of being with a woman. A woman is a "perk" rather than a necessity.
- You cannot breathe without a girlfriend
- You require a girlfriend to eat
- You cannot ejaculate without a girlfriend
- You cannot get a job without a girlfriend
- You cannot have a place to live without a girlfriend
- You cannot have hobbies without a girlfriend
Does all of the above makes sense?
Didn't think so.
There is no logical reason why you NEED a girlfriend. However, a woman can be a challenging and even rewarding addition to your life, which can also be said of buying a car.
Learn to live without a woman instead of basing your existance of being with a woman. A woman is a "perk" rather than a necessity.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
this is gay
NewMan
Master Don Juan
You want mine?
She's free of charge.
She's free of charge.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Hit the DJ bible and get readin' dude. There is much work to be done.
belividere
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You'll probably find one and then come back on here two months later saying that you NEED to be single again.
sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
Will,
You should make sure you're meeting new girls all the time. Take up a hobby that will facilitate this.
You should make sure you're becoming better around women. Try and make at least one geniune female friend, hang out with her sometimes, and just chill out around her.
Work on your weaknesses, the fewer you have, the more women will wanna get with you.
One more thing - understand this: the more you feel that you need a girlfriend, the less likely you are to get one. Your neediness = unnecessary pressure on the relationship.
You should make sure you're meeting new girls all the time. Take up a hobby that will facilitate this.
You should make sure you're becoming better around women. Try and make at least one geniune female friend, hang out with her sometimes, and just chill out around her.
Work on your weaknesses, the fewer you have, the more women will wanna get with you.
One more thing - understand this: the more you feel that you need a girlfriend, the less likely you are to get one. Your neediness = unnecessary pressure on the relationship.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
cave dweller
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girl?
Will,
How old are you?
Tell us a few things about yourself?
ie:
work?
hobbies?
what you do in your spare time?
ect.......
cave dweller
Will,
How old are you?
Tell us a few things about yourself?
ie:
work?
hobbies?
what you do in your spare time?
ect.......
cave dweller
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Sexual's right. Sounds like you're giving off neediness, bigstyle.
Part of the way you change your body language and general behaviour, is to have a different mindset.
On here you will find repeated many many times that you must feel that you DON'T need a women to feel good, this is healthy and right.
Of course the paradox then kicks in, which is that you'll suddenly find female interest.
I recommend a book by susan jeffers called 'dare to connect'. Some people here will feel this is a bit too girlie psyco pop for SS, but I think you would benefit from it's ideas and exercises.
Part of the way you change your body language and general behaviour, is to have a different mindset.
On here you will find repeated many many times that you must feel that you DON'T need a women to feel good, this is healthy and right.
Of course the paradox then kicks in, which is that you'll suddenly find female interest.
I recommend a book by susan jeffers called 'dare to connect'. Some people here will feel this is a bit too girlie psyco pop for SS, but I think you would benefit from it's ideas and exercises.
Take the NEED out your statement and replace it with
I'd PREFER a girlfriend in my life.
Any women in your life at the moment ie friends etc, are sensing on this neediness without you even knowing it.
And this neediness my friend is the exact thing limitng you from having any women you want.
I'd PREFER a girlfriend in my life.
Any women in your life at the moment ie friends etc, are sensing on this neediness without you even knowing it.
And this neediness my friend is the exact thing limitng you from having any women you want.
Blue Phoenix
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You need a girlfriend and I need a car!
At least a car is more useful, uh?
At least a car is more useful, uh?
Amen!
diablo
Master Don Juan
Idea #1: Read the DJB.
Idea #2: Read the DJB.
Idea #3: Apply your new knowledge.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.