"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I naturally DLV myself to guys. Anyone explain?

dr0pxx

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WHat up everyone.

I have noticed that I naturally knock my status down when talking to guys. I will perhaps complain of physical pain or mental so I ahve conversation.

I believe this is wrong. I should DLV myself all the time correct? Perhaps I am afraid I will be percieved as a ****y ******* or something?

Once I DLV people seem to open up to me. They assoicate with me more, and I know this is not a good thing (to DLV) because it carries over into other things. People like me as a result but lose obvious respect.

Do we have a psychologist in here? lol

thx
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dr0pxx

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I am noticing this is how I relate to people. I see it as simply being social. I cant change what they think of me THEN WHY is there NLPs (patterns,mirroring,anchoring,eye cues) I see it as being friendly.

convince me otherwise.?
 
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