"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I naturally DLV myself to guys. Anyone explain?

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WHat up everyone.

I have noticed that I naturally knock my status down when talking to guys. I will perhaps complain of physical pain or mental so I ahve conversation.

I believe this is wrong. I should DLV myself all the time correct? Perhaps I am afraid I will be percieved as a ****y ******* or something?

Once I DLV people seem to open up to me. They assoicate with me more, and I know this is not a good thing (to DLV) because it carries over into other things. People like me as a result but lose obvious respect.

Do we have a psychologist in here? lol

thx
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am noticing this is how I relate to people. I see it as simply being social. I cant change what they think of me THEN WHY is there NLPs (patterns,mirroring,anchoring,eye cues) I see it as being friendly.

convince me otherwise.?
 
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