"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I naturally DLV myself to guys. Anyone explain?

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WHat up everyone.

I have noticed that I naturally knock my status down when talking to guys. I will perhaps complain of physical pain or mental so I ahve conversation.

I believe this is wrong. I should DLV myself all the time correct? Perhaps I am afraid I will be percieved as a ****y ******* or something?

Once I DLV people seem to open up to me. They assoicate with me more, and I know this is not a good thing (to DLV) because it carries over into other things. People like me as a result but lose obvious respect.

Do we have a psychologist in here? lol

thx
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I am noticing this is how I relate to people. I see it as simply being social. I cant change what they think of me THEN WHY is there NLPs (patterns,mirroring,anchoring,eye cues) I see it as being friendly.

convince me otherwise.?
 
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