Knight's Cross
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 31, 2007
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Men of the Forum,
I ask for your help. Over the last month I let a woman back into my life. When I say let in...well it was at a low point in plate spinning. Foolish me...I thought she had changed ways...and of course "temporarily" she did. Well over the course of a month she went back to being the same nagging, not so sexual person that she was from the start. So...I pulled the black and yellow handle labeled "EJECT". I told her in a brief breakaway that I didn't feel special to her, that I didn't have trust in her (reason for previous breakup), and I was going to start dating others and I deserved someone that was into me 100% and let me feel that. I got tired of being with her, and her not committing to anything more than "friends" after a year. That was enough.
OK so why do I ask for help...and feel free to berate or otherwise kick the S@IT out of me to keep me away from her. See at this point she is firing round after round of text/ Voice and emails...telling me that she isn't quitting...bla bla bla...I have had it gents..I need some serious support to stay clear of her. I kept it up for a month at a time in the past, and I had PEACE....I need to feel that again.
Rollo has given me some great support to blast clear...now I need to keep some speed and altitude to get free of her.
It's strange...in flying I have learned quick to deal with things that will kill me fast. In matters of the heart I have been a slower learner at things that will kill me slow. Either way you lose....
Thanks to all. Now fire away. I need it.
I ask for your help. Over the last month I let a woman back into my life. When I say let in...well it was at a low point in plate spinning. Foolish me...I thought she had changed ways...and of course "temporarily" she did. Well over the course of a month she went back to being the same nagging, not so sexual person that she was from the start. So...I pulled the black and yellow handle labeled "EJECT". I told her in a brief breakaway that I didn't feel special to her, that I didn't have trust in her (reason for previous breakup), and I was going to start dating others and I deserved someone that was into me 100% and let me feel that. I got tired of being with her, and her not committing to anything more than "friends" after a year. That was enough.
OK so why do I ask for help...and feel free to berate or otherwise kick the S@IT out of me to keep me away from her. See at this point she is firing round after round of text/ Voice and emails...telling me that she isn't quitting...bla bla bla...I have had it gents..I need some serious support to stay clear of her. I kept it up for a month at a time in the past, and I had PEACE....I need to feel that again.
Rollo has given me some great support to blast clear...now I need to keep some speed and altitude to get free of her.
It's strange...in flying I have learned quick to deal with things that will kill me fast. In matters of the heart I have been a slower learner at things that will kill me slow. Either way you lose....
Thanks to all. Now fire away. I need it.