"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i met her tonight, she's into me BUT.. gold diggerish tendencies

pete101

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now she's text me to tell me she's had an emergency and is heading to the airport (i imagine she's going back to south america to see a sick family member or something) and that she's back next thursday..

i still sense that she's trying to see if she has me in her pocket.. normally i'd just send her back 'ok' as i dont want to give too much away but in this case is something like 'ok have safe flight' giving too much away.. 'ok' seems a bit rude?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pete101 said:
it shouldn't be surprise that she knows women in the area who 'hook' .. so she makes money being a madam from time to time settign up her hot friends with rich old guys to have sex and what not.. i imagine she must have hooked in the past too hence her 'dont like tight men' thing.. it's just coincidence she's physically attracted to me as i'm her racial type.
So your date is basically a wh0re/female pimp? And you're wondering if she might have some "gold diggerish tendencies"? (that's got to be an understatement of the century :D)
 

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I think this guy is trolling. There is no way a human being can be so oblivious.
 
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