"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i met her tonight, she's into me BUT.. gold diggerish tendencies

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pete101

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now she's text me to tell me she's had an emergency and is heading to the airport (i imagine she's going back to south america to see a sick family member or something) and that she's back next thursday..

i still sense that she's trying to see if she has me in her pocket.. normally i'd just send her back 'ok' as i dont want to give too much away but in this case is something like 'ok have safe flight' giving too much away.. 'ok' seems a bit rude?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pete101 said:
it shouldn't be surprise that she knows women in the area who 'hook' .. so she makes money being a madam from time to time settign up her hot friends with rich old guys to have sex and what not.. i imagine she must have hooked in the past too hence her 'dont like tight men' thing.. it's just coincidence she's physically attracted to me as i'm her racial type.
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So your date is basically a wh0re/female pimp? And you're wondering if she might have some "gold diggerish tendencies"? (that's got to be an understatement of the century :D)
 
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I think this guy is trolling. There is no way a human being can be so oblivious.
 
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