"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i met her tonight, she's into me BUT.. gold diggerish tendencies

pete101

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now she's text me to tell me she's had an emergency and is heading to the airport (i imagine she's going back to south america to see a sick family member or something) and that she's back next thursday..

i still sense that she's trying to see if she has me in her pocket.. normally i'd just send her back 'ok' as i dont want to give too much away but in this case is something like 'ok have safe flight' giving too much away.. 'ok' seems a bit rude?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pete101 said:
it shouldn't be surprise that she knows women in the area who 'hook' .. so she makes money being a madam from time to time settign up her hot friends with rich old guys to have sex and what not.. i imagine she must have hooked in the past too hence her 'dont like tight men' thing.. it's just coincidence she's physically attracted to me as i'm her racial type.
So your date is basically a wh0re/female pimp? And you're wondering if she might have some "gold diggerish tendencies"? (that's got to be an understatement of the century :D)
 

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I think this guy is trolling. There is no way a human being can be so oblivious.
 
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