"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I messed up when calling this girl HELP ASAP

fapper2

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ive been chatting it up with a girl in my class for the past few weeks, and it turns out we are members at the same gym. Anyways last night i asked her to come with me to the gym, and she was totally for it and seemed really happy. When we got there i made her do back exercises, during which i was to make really good physical contact with her :p.

So anyways today, at around 8pm (exactly 24 hours after the gym), I was chilling in my car waiting for a friend, so i decided to give the girl a call. I called, she picked up, we exchanged hi's/whats up. I asked her how she was feeling--her back specifically. She said it was kinda sore but it felt good. Then i told her that i was dead tired in the morning thanks to her cardio, and she cracked a laugh. We were talking for about 20 seconds and I wanted to keep talking. However all of a sudden my retarded friend decided to surprise me and banged on my window really hard after creeping up on me. SO i quickly told the girl, "hey im about to drive, ill talk to ya in a bit". She said "ok" and then we exchanged good byes. I bet shes going to think im rude now, but now i dont feel like calling.

What should i do? Should i text her, call her, or just talk to her tomorrow in class?

If i text her it would probably be:
"sorry I had to get off the phone so abruptly earlier, ill cya tomm"
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DevanE said:
Troll***:box:
what?

I posted on my cars off-topic forum, but people there are giving me ****ty adivce. I really need help.
 

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You are taking things way too seriously man. If she doesn't give you a break with what happened then she really sucks and you don't need her anyway. So chill out.
 

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ryannath said:
You are taking things way too seriously man. If she doesn't give you a break with what happened then she really sucks and you don't need her anyway. So chill out.
thanks bro, i know im overthinking this but i cant help it lol. I dont think ill do anything and just wait till tomm. IF she asks me why i was so abrubpt, ill just tell her i had to head to a friends house and i got home too late to call her.
 
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