"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I messed up when calling this girl HELP ASAP

fapper2

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ive been chatting it up with a girl in my class for the past few weeks, and it turns out we are members at the same gym. Anyways last night i asked her to come with me to the gym, and she was totally for it and seemed really happy. When we got there i made her do back exercises, during which i was to make really good physical contact with her :p.

So anyways today, at around 8pm (exactly 24 hours after the gym), I was chilling in my car waiting for a friend, so i decided to give the girl a call. I called, she picked up, we exchanged hi's/whats up. I asked her how she was feeling--her back specifically. She said it was kinda sore but it felt good. Then i told her that i was dead tired in the morning thanks to her cardio, and she cracked a laugh. We were talking for about 20 seconds and I wanted to keep talking. However all of a sudden my retarded friend decided to surprise me and banged on my window really hard after creeping up on me. SO i quickly told the girl, "hey im about to drive, ill talk to ya in a bit". She said "ok" and then we exchanged good byes. I bet shes going to think im rude now, but now i dont feel like calling.

What should i do? Should i text her, call her, or just talk to her tomorrow in class?

If i text her it would probably be:
"sorry I had to get off the phone so abruptly earlier, ill cya tomm"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DevanE said:
Troll***:box:
what?

I posted on my cars off-topic forum, but people there are giving me ****ty adivce. I really need help.
 

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You are taking things way too seriously man. If she doesn't give you a break with what happened then she really sucks and you don't need her anyway. So chill out.
 

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ryannath said:
You are taking things way too seriously man. If she doesn't give you a break with what happened then she really sucks and you don't need her anyway. So chill out.
thanks bro, i know im overthinking this but i cant help it lol. I dont think ill do anything and just wait till tomm. IF she asks me why i was so abrubpt, ill just tell her i had to head to a friends house and i got home too late to call her.
 
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