"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I messed up when calling this girl HELP ASAP

fapper2

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ive been chatting it up with a girl in my class for the past few weeks, and it turns out we are members at the same gym. Anyways last night i asked her to come with me to the gym, and she was totally for it and seemed really happy. When we got there i made her do back exercises, during which i was to make really good physical contact with her :p.

So anyways today, at around 8pm (exactly 24 hours after the gym), I was chilling in my car waiting for a friend, so i decided to give the girl a call. I called, she picked up, we exchanged hi's/whats up. I asked her how she was feeling--her back specifically. She said it was kinda sore but it felt good. Then i told her that i was dead tired in the morning thanks to her cardio, and she cracked a laugh. We were talking for about 20 seconds and I wanted to keep talking. However all of a sudden my retarded friend decided to surprise me and banged on my window really hard after creeping up on me. SO i quickly told the girl, "hey im about to drive, ill talk to ya in a bit". She said "ok" and then we exchanged good byes. I bet shes going to think im rude now, but now i dont feel like calling.

What should i do? Should i text her, call her, or just talk to her tomorrow in class?

If i text her it would probably be:
"sorry I had to get off the phone so abruptly earlier, ill cya tomm"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DevanE said:
Troll***:box:
what?

I posted on my cars off-topic forum, but people there are giving me ****ty adivce. I really need help.
 

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You are taking things way too seriously man. If she doesn't give you a break with what happened then she really sucks and you don't need her anyway. So chill out.
 

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ryannath said:
You are taking things way too seriously man. If she doesn't give you a break with what happened then she really sucks and you don't need her anyway. So chill out.
thanks bro, i know im overthinking this but i cant help it lol. I dont think ill do anything and just wait till tomm. IF she asks me why i was so abrubpt, ill just tell her i had to head to a friends house and i got home too late to call her.
 
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