"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I made something for you guys
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
juliedhulem
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Its search engine for dating, looking good so far.
taiyuu_otoko
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That's a pretty good idea. It IS based on ads though, (nothing wrong with that), as they automatically come up above and besides the search results.n00bPimp said:
So you might want ease off on the "ad free" angle.
Nevertheless, very good concept.
Hope you get a lot of traffic.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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user43770
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Pretty cool, bud.
taiyuu_otoko
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You know, you could package this sell it as an app, for a buck or so.n00bPimp said:
You might make a lot of money.
Searchable field resource.
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BeDJ
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Very true. You need an agent. That's where I come in. I have a cellphone, a bank account, and a desire to deposit your money in my bank account. Help me help you. Show me the money. You had me at hello.taiyuu_otoko said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Peaks&Valleys
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did a search, the first three results were ads....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
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Peaks&Valleys
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That's how they make their squills. There's a way to build/buy your own search engine. Unfortunately anyway you do it is going to cost some money, but if done right....USER FRIENDLY, EASY, QUICK, THE RIGHT RESULTS....people will start coming back, and referring other people to it.n00bPimp said:
backbreaker
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it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.