"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
juliedhulem
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Its search engine for dating, looking good so far.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That's a pretty good idea. It IS based on ads though, (nothing wrong with that), as they automatically come up above and besides the search results.n00bPimp said:
So you might want ease off on the "ad free" angle.
Nevertheless, very good concept.
Hope you get a lot of traffic.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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user43770
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Pretty cool, bud.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
You know, you could package this sell it as an app, for a buck or so.n00bPimp said:
You might make a lot of money.
Searchable field resource.
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BeDJ
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Very true. You need an agent. That's where I come in. I have a cellphone, a bank account, and a desire to deposit your money in my bank account. Help me help you. Show me the money. You had me at hello.taiyuu_otoko said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Peaks&Valleys
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did a search, the first three results were ads....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
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Peaks&Valleys
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That's how they make their squills. There's a way to build/buy your own search engine. Unfortunately anyway you do it is going to cost some money, but if done right....USER FRIENDLY, EASY, QUICK, THE RIGHT RESULTS....people will start coming back, and referring other people to it.n00bPimp said:
backbreaker
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it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.