"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I made something for you guys
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
juliedhulem
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Its search engine for dating, looking good so far.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That's a pretty good idea. It IS based on ads though, (nothing wrong with that), as they automatically come up above and besides the search results.n00bPimp said:
So you might want ease off on the "ad free" angle.
Nevertheless, very good concept.
Hope you get a lot of traffic.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Pretty cool, bud.
taiyuu_otoko
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You know, you could package this sell it as an app, for a buck or so.n00bPimp said:
You might make a lot of money.
Searchable field resource.
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BeDJ
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Very true. You need an agent. That's where I come in. I have a cellphone, a bank account, and a desire to deposit your money in my bank account. Help me help you. Show me the money. You had me at hello.taiyuu_otoko said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Peaks&Valleys
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did a search, the first three results were ads....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
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Peaks&Valleys
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That's how they make their squills. There's a way to build/buy your own search engine. Unfortunately anyway you do it is going to cost some money, but if done right....USER FRIENDLY, EASY, QUICK, THE RIGHT RESULTS....people will start coming back, and referring other people to it.n00bPimp said:
backbreaker
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it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.