"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
juliedhulem
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Its search engine for dating, looking good so far.
taiyuu_otoko
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That's a pretty good idea. It IS based on ads though, (nothing wrong with that), as they automatically come up above and besides the search results.n00bPimp said:
So you might want ease off on the "ad free" angle.
Nevertheless, very good concept.
Hope you get a lot of traffic.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Pretty cool, bud.
taiyuu_otoko
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You know, you could package this sell it as an app, for a buck or so.n00bPimp said:
You might make a lot of money.
Searchable field resource.
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BeDJ
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Very true. You need an agent. That's where I come in. I have a cellphone, a bank account, and a desire to deposit your money in my bank account. Help me help you. Show me the money. You had me at hello.taiyuu_otoko said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Peaks&Valleys
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did a search, the first three results were ads....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
moving on...
Great concept.....but get what I'm sayin?
Don't turn me off before you turn me on. (my thoughts)
Lots of potential here though, think you've hit on something....
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Peaks&Valleys
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That's how they make their squills. There's a way to build/buy your own search engine. Unfortunately anyway you do it is going to cost some money, but if done right....USER FRIENDLY, EASY, QUICK, THE RIGHT RESULTS....people will start coming back, and referring other people to it.n00bPimp said:
backbreaker
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it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
it's a pretty good idea. you didn't so much create a dating search engine as much as you aggroated various pua/ dating sites all into one platform.
what i would do is go to a TAG cloud system where users can just click on a tag and have posts for various sites come up versus having the search and the design looks very AOL 1995 ish (no offense)
if you are hellbent on using hte search you need an advanced search option as well
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.