"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I made out with a girl now what?

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Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You made out with a chick? So... basically, yall kissed, maybe slipped a little tongue in her mouth, maybe sucked on her neck a little bit, maybe even copped a couple feels on a covered boob.

All the blood rushed from your big head to your little head and you "expressed" your feelings to her?

This is probably the best advice you're gonna get. Erase her phone number. Don't contact her via email, chat, morse code, smoke signals, nothing!
Forget you know her. Find someone else and work up some kind of relationship with that person.

When girl A finally decides to call wondering why you haven't called her, set up a date. If she flakes, erase her from your life.
 
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kdnash82 said:
You made out with a chick? So... basically, yall kissed, maybe slipped a little tongue in her mouth, maybe sucked on her neck a little bit, maybe even copped a couple feels on a covered boob.

All the blood rushed from your big head to your little head and you "expressed" your feelings to her?

This is probably the best advice you're gonna get. Erase her phone number. Don't contact her via email, chat, morse code, smoke signals, nothing!
Forget you know her. Find someone else and work up some kind of relationship with that person.

When girl A finally decides to call wondering why you haven't called her, set up a date. If she flakes, erase her from your life.
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Makes sense to me on so many different leves. This is the correct advice. I had a similar situation. Just when I thought this was the beginning to someting good, it was the beginning of the end, she started playing more games and that is how I ended here.

The only reason I would like to run into her is because I know that up until recent years, I didn't know exactly how to handle that type of situation.
 
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tjslove said:
Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
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Bad Things You Did:

1) Expressed your feelings to her: Strike one
2) Made out with a girl that has played you like a fiddle before: Strike two

Consequences Of Your Actions:

Indirectly your showing her you don't respect yourself because your putting your heart on your sleeve for a girl that doesn't respect you: Strike 1000


If you didn't have feelings for this girl I would tell you to just keep her on the side while you meet more girls. However you know that you like her and your giving her value based on her looks. She doesn't respect and she never will, be prepared to be played again.




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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tjslove said:
Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
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Make out with her again.
 
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