"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I made out with a girl now what?

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Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You made out with a chick? So... basically, yall kissed, maybe slipped a little tongue in her mouth, maybe sucked on her neck a little bit, maybe even copped a couple feels on a covered boob.

All the blood rushed from your big head to your little head and you "expressed" your feelings to her?

This is probably the best advice you're gonna get. Erase her phone number. Don't contact her via email, chat, morse code, smoke signals, nothing!
Forget you know her. Find someone else and work up some kind of relationship with that person.

When girl A finally decides to call wondering why you haven't called her, set up a date. If she flakes, erase her from your life.
 
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kdnash82 said:
You made out with a chick? So... basically, yall kissed, maybe slipped a little tongue in her mouth, maybe sucked on her neck a little bit, maybe even copped a couple feels on a covered boob.

All the blood rushed from your big head to your little head and you "expressed" your feelings to her?

This is probably the best advice you're gonna get. Erase her phone number. Don't contact her via email, chat, morse code, smoke signals, nothing!
Forget you know her. Find someone else and work up some kind of relationship with that person.

When girl A finally decides to call wondering why you haven't called her, set up a date. If she flakes, erase her from your life.
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Makes sense to me on so many different leves. This is the correct advice. I had a similar situation. Just when I thought this was the beginning to someting good, it was the beginning of the end, she started playing more games and that is how I ended here.

The only reason I would like to run into her is because I know that up until recent years, I didn't know exactly how to handle that type of situation.
 
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tjslove said:
Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
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Bad Things You Did:

1) Expressed your feelings to her: Strike one
2) Made out with a girl that has played you like a fiddle before: Strike two

Consequences Of Your Actions:

Indirectly your showing her you don't respect yourself because your putting your heart on your sleeve for a girl that doesn't respect you: Strike 1000


If you didn't have feelings for this girl I would tell you to just keep her on the side while you meet more girls. However you know that you like her and your giving her value based on her looks. She doesn't respect and she never will, be prepared to be played again.




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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tjslove said:
Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
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Make out with her again.
 
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