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I made out with a girl now what?

tjslove

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Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:
 

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You made out with a chick? So... basically, yall kissed, maybe slipped a little tongue in her mouth, maybe sucked on her neck a little bit, maybe even copped a couple feels on a covered boob.

All the blood rushed from your big head to your little head and you "expressed" your feelings to her?

This is probably the best advice you're gonna get. Erase her phone number. Don't contact her via email, chat, morse code, smoke signals, nothing!
Forget you know her. Find someone else and work up some kind of relationship with that person.

When girl A finally decides to call wondering why you haven't called her, set up a date. If she flakes, erase her from your life.
 

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kdnash82 said:
You made out with a chick? So... basically, yall kissed, maybe slipped a little tongue in her mouth, maybe sucked on her neck a little bit, maybe even copped a couple feels on a covered boob.

All the blood rushed from your big head to your little head and you "expressed" your feelings to her?

This is probably the best advice you're gonna get. Erase her phone number. Don't contact her via email, chat, morse code, smoke signals, nothing!
Forget you know her. Find someone else and work up some kind of relationship with that person.

When girl A finally decides to call wondering why you haven't called her, set up a date. If she flakes, erase her from your life.
Makes sense to me on so many different leves. This is the correct advice. I had a similar situation. Just when I thought this was the beginning to someting good, it was the beginning of the end, she started playing more games and that is how I ended here.

The only reason I would like to run into her is because I know that up until recent years, I didn't know exactly how to handle that type of situation.
 

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tjslove said:
Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:

Bad Things You Did:

1) Expressed your feelings to her: Strike one
2) Made out with a girl that has played you like a fiddle before: Strike two

Consequences Of Your Actions:

Indirectly your showing her you don't respect yourself because your putting your heart on your sleeve for a girl that doesn't respect you: Strike 1000


If you didn't have feelings for this girl I would tell you to just keep her on the side while you meet more girls. However you know that you like her and your giving her value based on her looks. She doesn't respect and she never will, be prepared to be played again.




PIMP
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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tjslove said:
Last night I made out with a girl that I have known for years dating on and off.............she has played games before. I made out with her after I expressed feeling about her.

She said to call her today? I like her.......I am a total chump and need advice please:mad: :eek:

Make out with her again.
 
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