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.Tonight at an event, around 30 women got the giggles how men as a group arent masculine like 1950s movie icons anymore.

My table of 15 were debating heavily, so I gave my views. I dont sooth egos so this suited me

"Were a generation of men, raised by women, a woman can only install certain energies into a child, some of which are dangerous(insecurity.emotional reasoning/emasculation) a man is required for the other certain energies" .......(I worded it as professional as I could)

Interestingly the whole table turned on me like a pack of hyenas. apart from 2 guys who totally agreed with me.

Fortunately I remained stoic and in my frame.

And in true red pill form , everyone at the table was the exception to the rule.

I find it absolutely amazing how society protects this virus at all costs.

Every single one of my daughters friends who are fatherless are already little A.W'S, problematic, and the boys are beta as hell or the naughtiest little Pr8cks in school. Her fathered friends are totally normal

Anyway thats all from me, I absolutely loved going off on my little crusade at the table,

take care guys, stay safe, if in doubt, flat out.
 

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Records issued by the Courts indicate people raised by single mothers are going to struggle, I think they said 70% of men in US prisons are raised by a single mother.
 

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.Tonight at an event, around 30 women got the giggles how men as a group arent masculine like 1950s movie icons anymore.

My table of 15 were debating heavily, so I gave my views. I dont sooth egos so this suited me

"Were a generation of men, raised by women, a woman can only install certain energies into a child, some of which are dangerous(insecurity.emotional reasoning/emasculation) a man is required for the other certain energies" .......(I worded it as professional as I could)

Interestingly the whole table turned on me like a pack of hyenas. apart from 2 guys who totally agreed with me.

Fortunately I remained stoic and in my frame.

And in true red pill form , everyone at the table was the exception to the rule.

I find it absolutely amazing how society protects this virus at all costs.
I've had similar experiences
 

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Single mothers like to be applauded as superheroes because in their warped minds they convince themselves that they can do it all on their own. Any view that is contrary to this silly fantasy is met with venom because it’s deemed as you knocking their “heroic” efforts. So they continue to delude themselves and others that giving a child a 50% = 100%.
 

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Single mothers like to be applauded as superheroes because in their warped minds they convince themselves that they can do it all on their own. Any view that is contrary to this silly fantasy is met with venom because it’s deemed as you knocking their “heroic” efforts. So they continue to delude themselves and others that giving a child a 50% = 100%.
Interestingly when you have them in a one on one setting they totally agree with you.

when theyre in the herd , they shoot you down and vote you out,for the same comments

theyre ego cannot handle being told it may of participated in the emotional wrongdoing of a child
 

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Records issued by the Courts indicate people raised by single mothers are going to struggle,
we work with fatherless children/adults in the Uk. Theyre emotionally destroyed, make terrible life decisions (ie get pregnant within a week of dating, for which all the elder women think its beautiful not one criticises her for getting pregnant)


theyre radicalised by their own mom,
total attention hoes
the boys either look like Rupert Bear, or are hyper masculine
they have no sense of honour or loyalty either

it goes much deeper the rabbit hole
 

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You know, all this victim mentality. Do you guys not know that Iceberg Slim, the greatest Pimp that ever lived, was raised by a single mother?
 

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You know, all this victim mentality. Do you guys not know that Iceberg Slim, the greatest Pimp that ever lived, was raised by a single mother?
But there is an adaptation to young men without Fathers: Following Street Code becomes how these young men adapt to having no father figure, instead their friends become their father figure, gang activity becomes the hierarchy.

Children raised by single parents are victims, we just don't want to press this narrative because there are nuanced anecdotes, like maybe the mother was a victim of crime, also with a victim comes perpetrator, do we want to point fingers at these people when the foster parent narrative is arguably worse than the single parent narrative.
 

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But there is an adaptation to young men without Fathers: Following Street Code becomes how these young men adapt to having no father figure, instead their friends become their father figure, gang activity becomes the hierarchy.

Children raised by single parents are victims, we just don't want to press this narrative because there are nuanced anecdotes, like maybe the mother was a victim of crime, also with a victim comes perpetrator, do we want to point fingers at these people when the foster parent narrative is arguably worse than the single parent narrative.
I was raised by a single mother. No excuses. I read and worked my way to where I am.
 

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I was raised by a single mother. No excuses. I read and worked my way to where I am.
A deficiency and an excuse are not the same thing, just because you were able to push through your deficiency does not mean every man can; this is an anecdote.
 

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A deficiency and an excuse are not the same thing, just because you were able to push through your deficiency does not mean every man can; this is an anecdote.
The whole point of this forum (I hope) is to be above average men, who get above average results. We HAVE to be the exceptions to the rules. Being a statistic is for sheeple.
 

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The whole point of this post, was to prove how deluded society is, and accountability destroys ego's.
Fair but I’d like to see people use exceptions to the rule as motivation instead of a reason to justify their lack of results.
 

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The whole point of this forum (I hope) is to be above average men, who get above average results. We HAVE to be the exceptions to the rules. Being a statistic is for sheeple.
This is a romantic view though, like to suggest that the social impairments that happen to a child that isn't able to play with other children by the age of 4, for example, can be mitigated by being Men, this is just an ignorant perspective and not a negative ignorance, your heart is in the right place to not quit, but all the same, the deficiencies need to be looked at, there are consequences of these past events that many still live with.

Self development, is extremely important however you need to have an essence of self awareness in order to orientate your self development, otherwise your self development becomes less effective; we have to understand what the problem is, before we can solve it.

Most men who are raised by single mothers are either withdrawn or hyper masculine, both come with their own issues, hyper masculine men think a shouting match at the bus stop is a productive use of their time, likewise the withdrawn play video games, the answer isn't one or the other, the answer is balance, finding said balance isn't easy when you are orientated to one extreme or the other.
 

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This is a romantic view though, like to suggest that the social impairments that happen to a child that isn't able to play with other children by the age of 4, for example, can be mitigated by being Men, this is just an ignorant perspective and not a negative ignorance, your heart is in the right place to not quit, but all the same, the deficiencies need to be looked at, there are consequences of these past events that many still live with.

Self development, is extremely important however you need to have an essence of self awareness in order to orientate your self development, otherwise your self development becomes less effective; we have to understand what the problem is, before we can solve it.

Most men who are raised by single mothers are either withdrawn or hyper masculine, both come with their own issues, hyper masculine men think a shouting match at the bus stop is a productive use of their time, likewise the withdrawn play video games, the answer isn't one or the other, the answer is balance, finding said balance isn't easy when you are orientated to one extreme or the other.
Whereas I think all that matters is if you achieve your goals. Life is what you make it. There aren’t any rules.
 

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.Tonight at an event, around 30 women got the giggles how men as a group arent masculine like 1950s movie icons anymore.

My table of 15 were debating heavily, so I gave my views. I dont sooth egos so this suited me

"Were a generation of men, raised by women, a woman can only install certain energies into a child, some of which are dangerous(insecurity.emotional reasoning/emasculation) a man is required for the other certain energies" .......(I worded it as professional as I could)

Interestingly the whole table turned on me like a pack of hyenas. apart from 2 guys who totally agreed with me.

Fortunately I remained stoic and in my frame.

And in true red pill form , everyone at the table was the exception to the rule.

I find it absolutely amazing how society protects this virus at all costs.

Every single one of my daughters friends who are fatherless are already little A.W'S, problematic, and the boys are beta as hell or the naughtiest little Pr8cks in school. Her fathered friends are totally normal

Anyway thats all from me, I absolutely loved going off on my little crusade at the table,

take care guys, stay safe, if in doubt, flat out.
It's funny that they'll all sit around putting down men and they think it's hilarious, but the moment you say something negative about women they bring up sexism.

Such hypocrisy.
 

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It's funny that they'll all sit around putting down men and they think it's hilarious, but the moment you say something negative about women they bring up sexism.

Such hypocrisy.
You have to look at it this way: when a woman is this comfortable talking down on men in public, how do you think the men she shares company with in private get treated?

This is a sign that she is surrounded by beta males.
 

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Just want to share a similar experience with 5 middle class, metropolitan women (my friends wives and GF). I was single and they started discussing who I was dating etc (danger! Danger!)

One said “ you just need to get someone like you, similar age and career that you’re well suited to”

I said “probably not. I like feminine women who put family before career, my career is full of ball breakers working 50 hours weeks. Ive just never been that attracted to professional, career focused women. I don’t want to be arguing over who gets to do the school run etc”

this made them extremely angry, they are all career minded and see anything less as selling out the sisterhood.

they made this clear, and I said “look. Your husband is a MD of a firm and drives a top end BMW. Your husband fights in MMA. Yours redevelops houses. These are all overtly male and masculine professionals and interests. Just see the flip side, you don’t want a guy who’s a nanny, do you? You’re happy for stereotypical types when your choosing your partners. Just accept I’m the same - I like caring, feminine, family first women”

the anger that spewed forth - literally screwing up their faces at times.

it culminated in “so what you’re saying is, I can’t have a career? Women shouldn’t have a career?”

I said “no! Of course not. Just that I personally don’t want that, I have no desire to restrict anyone’s choices”

from that moment on that particular group of women essentially disowned me, and I no longer socialise with them.

these people are just awful people, what feminism has done to them is criminal.

completely hypocritical and total bigotry.

my friend said something after like “look, just don’t say stuff like that...just let it go”
He was acknowledging that they are essentially stupid, and illogical but also essentially bullies so you must accept their ignorance to lead an easy life.

f00k that.
 

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my friend said something after like “look, just don’t say stuff like that...just let it go”

Yep I had similar a few years back, group of 6 at the table, 3 women 3 men, the other two men told me to "leave it" (as they were scared of losing their potential options) the pu$$y betas told me they totally agreed with me though.

ironically in the middle of that very night, 2 of the women Id debated from the table, DM'd me. I had sent them Horny as hell, dominating the convo, they just didnt admit it at the table.
 
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