dointhingsright
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should i say it to my girlfriend or would that kill the relationship.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Originally posted by The Bishop
Never say you love a girl until they say it first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
cutting and to the point. but i think you need to answer!Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Here's the question:
Do you love her?
Ok...now answer my question:Originally posted by dointhingsright
well its one of those things that im not sure. im put into the position where i might have to. i go out with alot of girls and all the girls in my high school know that. i feel that i have to say something like this to show her that she is different than alot of the girls i have been with but at the same time i dont want to "kill" my game and have her look at me as if i were some sort of afc. im not sure on what to do here.
Tell her just that, that there's something different about her. much more intriguing than 'I love you'. I would say it more bemusedly/mysteriously than romantically (save the romantic part for the actual I love you). But you can do it how you want.Originally posted by dointhingsright
well its one of those things that im not sure. im put into the position where i might have to. i go out with alot of girls and all the girls in my high school know that. i feel that i have to say something like this to show her that she is different than alot of the girls i have been with ....
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.